I get harassed by my girlfriend a lot about my beliefs but I havent been cut off from sex yet. I'm already on the fence about if I shoukd cut and run. She cuts me off and I'm out of here.

Divorce from marriage and common law seems daunting but I'm at the age where people are starting to get fed up with each other and call it quits. Some are more messy than others, but so far don't know anybody that doesn't feel better about it after the dust settled. The guys always feel dicked around because we get fucked by the courts but spousal support isnt forever. Keep the kids best interest in mind and don't join in on using them as a weapon as they usually do.