Right.

Responsibility for your family includes your parents, siblings, spouse, and kids. It shouldn't be a "new thing" when you're pregnant.

Destruction of family and community, along with lack of personal and group responsibility, is what got us here.

Women shouldn't be dependent on their husbands because both men and women have responsibilities. But it's a team effort, family effort, church effort, community effort.

Humpty Dumpty can't be put back together again. The problems are so pervasive and interconnected there is no one solution, except maybe something like a church revival and a return to morals. Highly unlikely.