Something to note about the control-freak mindset:

The more intimate the control level over other human beings, the better. Authoritarian nut-jobs of all stripes desire to control you down to your basic bodily functions. Controlling when/how/where/who you fuck is the ultimate control-freak thrill. It ranks up there with controlling how you speak, and how you think.

There's a reason so many crazy authoritarian types are also into fucking kids. It's all about having "ultimate control" over another human being. THAT'S the thing that really gets them off in a major way. They are compelled to seek that thrill. They can't help themselves. They NEED to "own" someone in the most intimate ways possible.

There was a time when most normal human beings would notice a psycho control freak getting near the levers of power and influence, and promptly bash their brains out with the nearest large stone. We're too stupid to save ourselves now.