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posted ago by flanders ago by flanders +24 / -1

tldr: kids wasting money on useless crap, and this is a long rant.

Basically, there are a ton of young couples in my city. And they all complain about how homes are expensive.

Well, they are. They've been expensive for almost every generation. "But they were cheaper during the boomer times!" they screech! Yes, but interest rates were double digit, and banks didn't hand out loans like they do now.

Y'see, these same complainers, dual income no kids (DINK's) all seem to be rocking Arc'teryx jackets ($500 average) iPhones, Netflix, Amazon prime subs, Airpods, out for dinner numerous times a week, new-ish cars, UberEats deliveries which add $15 to each meal at least.

And as for getting their own place, they all seem to imagine they have to have a fully furnished home with the latest stuff.

My parents got their house with no sidewalks, no fencing, no garage, and yep, basic furniture ie a used kitchen table and chairs, usual bedroom stuff, some rugs, a small TV, used fridge, etc etc. Didn't even have a washer/dryer until I was 6 or 7.

My dad built the walks, did the concrete forms, retaining walls, framed and built a garage solo, built the fencing around the entire property, and mom took care of the inside of the house, did all the painting... listen, I could go on, but the point is yes, homes cost more dineros than they did if you account for inflation. And no this wasn't rural Sask or AB, this was urban BC in a big town that looks a lot like Vancouver on the map.

Can you really picture some hipster putting up a stud wall and shingling the roof on his own? Or knowing how to build a fence that could last longer than a month without falling down? He'd probably kill himself tripping over a handsaw.

But dammit, if you and your GF (for some reason they can't get married and start a family either) are spending $1900/month to rent something fancy, plus another $2000/month+ on bullshit, then fuck your complaints.

What excuse do you really have? Been together 5 years, still rent like a chud, no kids, but hey at least you get soggy cold food delivered to the door and drive a car that you can barely afford so you look cool on instagram. Over that same time they'd have been able to save a good amount for a downpayment and subsequent mortgage payments that are less than their rent.

Naw fuck it, just complain instead. Ok, rant over.