All we can and should be able to do, is not to have to pay for it

If you're dissatisfied with Canada's healthcare system I don't know what to tell you. Should there be a fee structure for healthcare that's required because of lifestyle choices? Maybe you don't want to pay for the healthcare for smokers, drinkers, obese people, and the like. Abortion involves a fetus, so it's not quite the same thing, but money looms large in your argument and it doesn't seem to be a great leap to objecting to healthcare for people who don't make enough of an effort to take care of themselves.

I repeat: not exactly the same question, but a financial one, and arguably morally similar.