Yes, he is correct. Young women use emotions in their decision making process. This always leads to incredibly poor outcomes because emotions are usually of the moment, and do not consider the future consequences.
Men, who tend to go into STEM, use critical thinking instead. This takes into account future consequences for the immediate actions.
Edit; why are all the best chess players now and throughout history men?
I get no sex because I don't fit her ideological template. How fucked am I?
The question is why are you even married? Seems like the only thing you want out of a marriage is sex. Your wife and you have much bigger issues. And I don't think that an internet forum will be able to help you in any way.
This is going to sound loony, but I'm hoping you'll consider it.
Start buying the groceries and cooking from scratch. Avoid food colours and processed meat. Buy cuts of meat or ground only - skip on the sausage and ham and cold cuts.
I have personally experienced, and watched others experience, anger outbursts from eating hotdogs and sausage. Then later apologize saying they have no idea what came over them. I'm a woman, I used to experience several days a month of basically delusional, destructive, angry thoughts. I'm celiac too and wheat also does this to me.
She may be addicted to junk food (processed food). I know one individual who refused to adjust her diet, including drinking diet coke constantly, despite debilitating migraines. It can be a real addiction.
Only thing I can think of is replacing chips with versions from the organic isle (read the labels), same with chocolate/cookies. But if she refuses to participate, shrug its a lost cause.
Think about what you are writing here. Your wife doesn’t have sex with you for 3/4 of your marriage because she thinks you are a bad person. She resents you but won’t leave. This is straight up toxic.
I’m sorry, that is shitty. As a woman, I have noticed that there are a lot of unappreciative women out there, who don’t even consider why their partner agrees with the right more. My boyfriend showed me the light, and the reality of this fucked up world, because I just listened to him, and did the research myself. I finally knew the truth. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. It’s really hard to imagine to have a family on top of the hardship. Best of luck. You deserve to be treated better.
Agreed. If all he wanted out of marriage was sex, he would have walked out 5 years ago. This is bullshit. The woman is exploiting him, he is her meal ticket and the baby the hostage. The man has to walk because this situation is not going to get better, it's only going to get worse. It's only a matter of time before she claims some kind of abuse and takes all he has and make him a child support slave anyways.
If this post is real (who knows) I would go to her and tell her that she's right. You are a selfish evil white person and the only way to redeem yourself is to sell all of your possessions and move to Africa so that you can help the poor people there. (obviously tone down the language to make it believable)
Reach out to some lefty orgs in advance, let them (falsely) know that you are interested in going to Africa to donate your free time to help them. Don't tell them that you are willing to sell your possessions, that's only a lie for wifey.
Your wife will also have to do this as well, because no matter what she believes, she has the evil white skin, so she was also born with this original sin, regardless of her beliefs or actions. Deeds do not erase whiteness. Tell her that you inspired her to change, but you need her to commit - she took wedding vows, remember? You two are a 'team'.
Test her 'faith', it's one thing to virtue signal from your cushy home but another to actually follow through.
Leave the kid at home with a family member (on YOUR side of the family), don't sell your shit, but go to Africa. Plan out a trip where you will 'meet up' with the organization, maybe print out some pamphlets, get a buddy to make a website, make it look legit if you wanna fake it. Or use a real org and just fake the local contact info
The goal is to do some backpacking deep into the bowels of Africa, get 'lost' dump her ass in the middle of nowhere with nothing and then return to the West secretly at night. If anyone asks questions, say you returned to sell the home while your wife continues her charity work, and then move somewhere else with your kid. Kill all your social media and move your kid to another school.
I get harassed by my girlfriend a lot about my beliefs but I havent been cut off from sex yet. I'm already on the fence about if I shoukd cut and run. She cuts me off and I'm out of here.
Divorce from marriage and common law seems daunting but I'm at the age where people are starting to get fed up with each other and call it quits. Some are more messy than others, but so far don't know anybody that doesn't feel better about it after the dust settled. The guys always feel dicked around because we get fucked by the courts but spousal support isnt forever. Keep the kids best interest in mind and don't join in on using them as a weapon as they usually do.
My guess is it's a massive shit test. The world has not been this unstable in a long time and women turn to strong men in times of instability. She is begging you to show her that you are correct and that she is on the winning team.
If this is true you need help. Why are you together? Dump her. You are not compatible. And she either doesn’t like sex or she’s getting it on the side. Who goes 5 years without sex? Tbh this sounds like BS.
Well you can’t compromise with the left. If I were in your shoes I would build a case for divorce and custody, I would not want my kid growing up in a leftist home. I really hope you can find a better solution.
The Mindful Attraction Plan is a seven-phase process to change you for the better, in order to leverage your critical issue to resolve the way you want it to.
Most threats of ending relationships in hope of change, fail because of extremely poor timing. The MAP covers the pacing of the escalation toward the Resolution Point.
Most serious attempts to change things happen in the heat of the moment, which is typically a negative emotion blowout and ineffective. The MAP keeps things calm and steady in the hope that your partner starts acting like a reasonable person and the relationship can start turning positive.
The first part of the book is a very clear description of exactly how you become more attractive as fast as possible. Covering six areas of development you need to focus on:
(1) Physical Fitness and Health
(2) Money and Material Possessions
(3) Displays of High Value
(4) Building Relationship Comfort
(5) Personality and Preferences
(6) High-Energy Sex.
Within each area there’s a traffic light color coded system for things you need to do.
Red = Draining Energy = Stop It
Yellow = Stagnant Energy = Fix It
Green = Flowing Energy = Do It.
There’s no confusion about what you should be doing to improve your attractiveness and I even cover the exact order of importance your addressing things needs to follow. The (1) to (6) order is very important for example.
The second part of the book covers the seven phase approach to taking your new attraction and leveraging that into getting what you want from your relationships.
life.
The beauty odf doing this plan, is you will improve yourself- Your true self. So you will either know if she LOVES YOU or you should bail.
You are being abused. This is not healthy for anyone in that household.
First things first. Build a damn case for divorce. Including potentially a case for libel. Get your ass a lawyer real quick. Figure out how to get custody of the kids. At 3k/month might as well pay child support. Even better with the right case she can pay you child support. Find yourself again then find another person who shares your values.
Your wife is fucking somebody dude...sorry to be the one to tell you.
Get rid of her. She's a cunt. And worse, a leftist. Do not feed, house or clothe leftists. They deserve nothing of the sort.
Makes me wonder how righty chicks develop. I think it's too hard to find imo. Rare gems.
Yes, he is correct. Young women use emotions in their decision making process. This always leads to incredibly poor outcomes because emotions are usually of the moment, and do not consider the future consequences.
Men, who tend to go into STEM, use critical thinking instead. This takes into account future consequences for the immediate actions.
Edit; why are all the best chess players now and throughout history men?
This is the dumbest thing I've seen on a .win site you should feel bad man
The question is why are you even married? Seems like the only thing you want out of a marriage is sex. Your wife and you have much bigger issues. And I don't think that an internet forum will be able to help you in any way.
Do you shop for groceries?
This is going to sound loony, but I'm hoping you'll consider it.
Start buying the groceries and cooking from scratch. Avoid food colours and processed meat. Buy cuts of meat or ground only - skip on the sausage and ham and cold cuts.
I have personally experienced, and watched others experience, anger outbursts from eating hotdogs and sausage. Then later apologize saying they have no idea what came over them. I'm a woman, I used to experience several days a month of basically delusional, destructive, angry thoughts. I'm celiac too and wheat also does this to me.
*note - this won't prevent cheating.
Yikes.
She may be addicted to junk food (processed food). I know one individual who refused to adjust her diet, including drinking diet coke constantly, despite debilitating migraines. It can be a real addiction.
Only thing I can think of is replacing chips with versions from the organic isle (read the labels), same with chocolate/cookies. But if she refuses to participate, shrug its a lost cause.
Think about what you are writing here. Your wife doesn’t have sex with you for 3/4 of your marriage because she thinks you are a bad person. She resents you but won’t leave. This is straight up toxic.
I’m sorry, that is shitty. As a woman, I have noticed that there are a lot of unappreciative women out there, who don’t even consider why their partner agrees with the right more. My boyfriend showed me the light, and the reality of this fucked up world, because I just listened to him, and did the research myself. I finally knew the truth. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. It’s really hard to imagine to have a family on top of the hardship. Best of luck. You deserve to be treated better.
Dating in the late 20s is rough right now.
Isn’t it ever. Even most of the church girls I know are damn near narcissists. It sucks.
Far as I’m concerned that’s an abusive relationship that you’re in mate.
This has to be a troll post.
Agreed. If all he wanted out of marriage was sex, he would have walked out 5 years ago. This is bullshit. The woman is exploiting him, he is her meal ticket and the baby the hostage. The man has to walk because this situation is not going to get better, it's only going to get worse. It's only a matter of time before she claims some kind of abuse and takes all he has and make him a child support slave anyways.
It seems to me that she is just looking for excuses to justify her shitty behavior towards you. Don't buy into her bullshit.
If this post is real (who knows) I would go to her and tell her that she's right. You are a selfish evil white person and the only way to redeem yourself is to sell all of your possessions and move to Africa so that you can help the poor people there. (obviously tone down the language to make it believable)
Reach out to some lefty orgs in advance, let them (falsely) know that you are interested in going to Africa to donate your free time to help them. Don't tell them that you are willing to sell your possessions, that's only a lie for wifey.
Your wife will also have to do this as well, because no matter what she believes, she has the evil white skin, so she was also born with this original sin, regardless of her beliefs or actions. Deeds do not erase whiteness. Tell her that you inspired her to change, but you need her to commit - she took wedding vows, remember? You two are a 'team'.
Test her 'faith', it's one thing to virtue signal from your cushy home but another to actually follow through.
Leave the kid at home with a family member (on YOUR side of the family), don't sell your shit, but go to Africa. Plan out a trip where you will 'meet up' with the organization, maybe print out some pamphlets, get a buddy to make a website, make it look legit if you wanna fake it. Or use a real org and just fake the local contact info
The goal is to do some backpacking deep into the bowels of Africa, get 'lost' dump her ass in the middle of nowhere with nothing and then return to the West secretly at night. If anyone asks questions, say you returned to sell the home while your wife continues her charity work, and then move somewhere else with your kid. Kill all your social media and move your kid to another school.
Emigrate to Mexico and fuck bitches. Seriously. Leave the country.
Time to get out of dodge my friend.
You don't have a wife, you are cohabitating with someone that hates you, does not respect or value you.
good luck with the divorce rape and child support.
I get harassed by my girlfriend a lot about my beliefs but I havent been cut off from sex yet. I'm already on the fence about if I shoukd cut and run. She cuts me off and I'm out of here.
Divorce from marriage and common law seems daunting but I'm at the age where people are starting to get fed up with each other and call it quits. Some are more messy than others, but so far don't know anybody that doesn't feel better about it after the dust settled. The guys always feel dicked around because we get fucked by the courts but spousal support isnt forever. Keep the kids best interest in mind and don't join in on using them as a weapon as they usually do.
This marriage ended years ago. Time for a divorce. You can try couples counseling but there’s so much other stuff unsaid here.
I’d recommend reading the chapter in 12 rules for life about “being precise in your speech”, it uses a detailed breakdown of a marriage in it.
Maybe you can salvage things.
Find that chapter, it’s particularly relevant to your situation.
Did you two meet at a bar and get married while drunk?
My guess is it's a massive shit test. The world has not been this unstable in a long time and women turn to strong men in times of instability. She is begging you to show her that you are correct and that she is on the winning team.
Do you still have a set of balls? Find a new wife immediately.
If this is true you need help. Why are you together? Dump her. You are not compatible. And she either doesn’t like sex or she’s getting it on the side. Who goes 5 years without sex? Tbh this sounds like BS.
Well you can’t compromise with the left. If I were in your shoes I would build a case for divorce and custody, I would not want my kid growing up in a leftist home. I really hope you can find a better solution.
Hey - You need help - Please read this book and create a MAP
(https://www.amazon.ca/dp/149045151X/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_kOn9FbFG2P0P1)
The Mindful Attraction Plan is a seven-phase process to change you for the better, in order to leverage your critical issue to resolve the way you want it to. Most threats of ending relationships in hope of change, fail because of extremely poor timing. The MAP covers the pacing of the escalation toward the Resolution Point. Most serious attempts to change things happen in the heat of the moment, which is typically a negative emotion blowout and ineffective. The MAP keeps things calm and steady in the hope that your partner starts acting like a reasonable person and the relationship can start turning positive. The first part of the book is a very clear description of exactly how you become more attractive as fast as possible. Covering six areas of development you need to focus on: (1) Physical Fitness and Health (2) Money and Material Possessions (3) Displays of High Value (4) Building Relationship Comfort (5) Personality and Preferences (6) High-Energy Sex. Within each area there’s a traffic light color coded system for things you need to do. Red = Draining Energy = Stop It Yellow = Stagnant Energy = Fix It Green = Flowing Energy = Do It. There’s no confusion about what you should be doing to improve your attractiveness and I even cover the exact order of importance your addressing things needs to follow. The (1) to (6) order is very important for example. The second part of the book covers the seven phase approach to taking your new attraction and leveraging that into getting what you want from your relationships. life.
The beauty odf doing this plan, is you will improve yourself- Your true self. So you will either know if she LOVES YOU or you should bail.
You are being abused. This is not healthy for anyone in that household.
If this fails - Start getting ready for divorce- YES , get a divorce. (https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6tsban/why_im_not_afraid_of_divorce_rape_and_how_to_get/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=marriedredpill&utm_content=t5_32dvh)
Maybe divorce is the best solution. She is baiting you to slap her around and probably already banging some black dude, so you might as well move on.
First things first. Build a damn case for divorce. Including potentially a case for libel. Get your ass a lawyer real quick. Figure out how to get custody of the kids. At 3k/month might as well pay child support. Even better with the right case she can pay you child support. Find yourself again then find another person who shares your values.
Fargo.
I'd divorce her for using the word "partner".